It's always easy to say sorry.
But the sorry doesnt mean anything when U've already said sth very hurtful.
Plus, come to think about it, who is not being respectful.
Letting her to decide, pampering her and saying sorry 1st dont necessarily mean U respect her very much.
In fact, my definition of respecting comes in small lil things which matter even more to me.
It happened not only 1 time, but many many times.
"Sry, I forgot to tell U. It was too rushing." Am I so not worth informing? Why U will only rmb me when I msg U for your whereabout? Don't tell me U dun even have a single minute to tell me U are going a place at a time with who and etc. If it really slips through your mind so easily, so when U say U miss me, it is untrue? Everytime when I'm out with my friends, I'll make an effort to at least msg U once to tell about where I'm heading or doing, which I have definitely already told U earlier. Why I can and U cannot?? Where is the respect tt U mean?
Or U'll tell me tt U are going to this event jz right 1-2 hours before the event. And often it clashes with some other outings which I thought both of us are going. Why can't U tell me tt U may be going to this event on this date, even if U are unsure, instead of giving no response and letting me assume that we are going out. And the msg normally sounded like this, "I'm going farewell (or somewhere) later." Don't U wanna elaborate more? Why mz U wait till I ask? or wanna avoid telling me who U are going with and for what it is about? This is nth to do with whether I trust U or not, its about the inform part tt matters to a girl's heart. Unless U think I don't deserve to know. Where is your so-called respect? huh!
And last Friday. U said U are having dinner with family 1st, and I said ok, I can wait for U. But later your msg came again and said U guys r going out at 8.30, and by the time U reach back will be ard 9sth. I find it quite late and I told U to go ahead with ur dinner but I dun guarantee a "yes" later about our outing when U come bc. It was raining and I'm fine to go out tt day tho it was raining, but I wouldnt wanna go out later than a certain time, which U are very clear about it. I hate it when U always try to convince me that I gotta go out cox weekends are the only time for us, which directly made me felt guilty about it. Tts a very inconsiderate statement to say.
I know U wanna hang out, and I DO put PRIORITY for U, but sometimes your timing is really off. Can't U understand the situation at times, and not keep bugging me when U know I'm already annoyed?
WHERE IS THE RESPECT THAT U'VE BEEN MENTIONING??
Anyway, thank you for your patience and tolerance for the times tt I did not respect U.
